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How To Stop Masturbation.

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How To Stop Masturbation.

Masturbation is a highly debated subject in some quarters, while in some others it is hardly ever talked about. But it is something real and a concern for many who do not know where to go to or who to turn to for help. Some do not see anything wrong with it, while some are struggling to stop and some stop for a while and find themselves fall right back into it.
I share here some ways I believe one can put a complete stop to this habit. I wrote something about it last week and this is a continuation, if you would like to, you can read my first post on masturbation HERE.

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The devil always wants to sell his lies to people who are engaged in masturbation and all other sexual perversions:
“It does not matter”
“You are flesh and blood”
“You cannot stop it”
“God understands, you have to satisfy these sexual urges after all He put them in you.”
The devil is a liar and the father of lies, everything he says to you contradicts directly with God’s command and he must be resisted with God’s word.

In order to overcome masturbation or any other sin;

1. You must AGREE that it is sin.
You must totally agree and believe that masturbation is sin and displeasing to God. This is the very first step to your victory. This is the first step to your victory. When you come to this point, nothing the devil, anyone, or your flesh says can or will convince you that it is okay to continue, or that it does not matter.

Don’t you realize that this is not the way to live? Unjust people who don’t care about God will not be joining in his kingdom. Those who use and abuse each other, use and abuse sex, use and abuse the earth and everything in it, don’t qualify as citizens in God’s kingdom.
1 Corinthians 6:9 MSG

Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18 NASB

2. You must KNOW that you can be forgiven.
A lot of times satan keeps people stuck in sin because he wants them to believe that they have failed God terribly and there fore God cannot forgive them and He keep looking at them as sinners. The moment you genuinely repent and ask God for forgiveness, he forgives you completely and does not remember it anymore.

But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.
1 John 1:9 NLT
I–yes, I alone–will blot out your sins for my own sake and will never think of them again. Isaiah 43:25 NLT

And I will forgive their wickedness, and I will never again remember their sins. Hebrews 8:12 NLT
Jesus did not shed His blood for nothing. By His blood He purchased our forgivness. By His blood we can be cleansed from all unrighteousness. There is no kind of sin that His blood cannot save and cleanse us from.

He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins.
Ephesians 1:7 NLT

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3. You must KNOW that you can stop it.
You must believe and know for sure that you can do all things through Christ that strengthens you. Philippians 4:13
Jesus is willing and able to help you overcome every temptation and sin. He was tempted but He never fell into sin, so He can help us do the same. All you need to do is trust Him and call on Him for help.

For in that He himself has suffered being tempted, he is able to help those who are tempted. Hebrews 2:18 WEB

Sin is no longer your master, for you no longer live under the requirements of the law. Instead, you live under the freedom of God’s grace. Romans 6:14 NLT

For every child of God defeats this evil world, and we achieve this victory through our faith. 1 John 5:4 NLT

4. You must WANT to stop it.
Your desire to stop it must be so strong that you are willing to do all (in righteousness) that it takes to put an end to it. You must make up your mind to please God by obeying His commands. You must make up your mind to honour God with your body.
For God bought you with a high price. So you must honour God with your body. 1 Corinthians 6:20 NLT

But Daniel made up his mind that he would not defile himself… Daniel 1:8 NASB

I have sworn, and I will perform it, that I will keep thy righteous judgments. Psalms 119:106

5. You Must fill your mind with God’s word.
a. By Reading God’s Word.
Like water washes the body clean from dirt, God’s word washes the mind from sinful thoughts. A regular study of God’s word, with focus on verses on sexual immorality, overcoming sin, the blood of Jesus, walking in righteousness and the likes will rid cleanse the mind.

…To sanctify her by cleansing her with the washing of the water by the word. Ephesians 5:26 NET

Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth. John 17:17

b. By Thinking On God’s Word.
What you meditate on, you will act on. If you constantly think on God’s word, sinful thoughts will no longer find room in your mind.
And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Philippians 4:8 NLT

In my heart I store up your words, so I might not sin against you. Psalm 119:11 NET

6. You Must Pray Constantly.
You must constantly talk with God in prayers. When you spend time with God in prayers, you receive grace and strength to overcome.
So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most. Hebrews 4:16 NLT

Take the word of God, for example these ones I shared here and turn them into a conversation with God. In prayer you receive wisdom and power to overcome. If you do not pray then you make yourself an easy prey for the devil. It is in prayer that you receive power to resist temptation.
Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak.
Mark 14:38 NLT  Spending time to speak in tongue is one way to build your faith to with stand all the fiery darts of the enemy.
But dear friends, use your most holy faith to build yourselves up, praying in the Holy Spirit. Jude 1:20 NCV

7. You Must Be Sensitive To And Yield To The Holy Spirit.
The Holy Spirit is our Helper. He helps us by reminding us of God’s word and constantly telling us where, what, how, with whom…
When you fill your mind with God’s Word, The Holy Spirit will often bring the word back to you when you need it. All you need to do is yield yourself to Him and obey, then you will not fall for the cravings of your flesh. Remember, you receive the power to obey as you spend time in prayer. He enables us to overcome, He is The Power Of God.
So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. Galatians 5:16 NLT

8. You Must Avoid Temptations.
There are things you watch, things you read, places you go, people you hang out with, music you listen to… that bombard your mind with ungodly thoughts and stir your flesh toward sinning. You must do whatever you need to do to guard your mind and not expose yourself to these people, places or things.
Cut yourself off from any person, place or thing that feeds your flesh… Your eyes and ears are gateways to your heart and mind, therefore you must be deliberate about protecting yourself from whatever will lead you to sin.

I will refuse to look at anything vile and vulgar… Psalms 101:3 NLT
Stay away from every kind of evil. 1 Thessalonians 5:22 NLT
And don’t let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires. Romans 13:14b NLT

9. You Must Make Yourself Accountable To Someone Or People.
Surrounding yourself with the right kind of people is of great importance in overcoming sin. Establish a relationship with someone or some people who you can talk to regularly about what is going on in that area of your life. Someone who will also check up on you regularly to know how you are doing, pray with you and go over God’s word with you.

Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellers there is safety. Proverbs 11:14

Being involved in a local Church where your spirit is constantly fed by regular Bible studies and which has active support groups will help greatly.
We should not stop gathering together with other believers, as some of you are doing. Instead, we must continue to encourage each other even more as we see the day of the Lord coming. Hebrews 10:25 GW

10. You Must Think Of The Consequences.
One of the things you can do to stop a particular sin is to think of the consequences. When you weigh the consequences against the pleasure, you will know that you ought to deny yourself of the pleasure of sin in order to gain a bigger, better and everlasting pleasure.
Don’t you realize that this is not the way to live? Unjust people who don’t care about God will not be joining in his kingdom. Those who use and abuse each other, use and abuse sex, use and abuse the earth and everything in it, don’t qualify as citizens in God’s kingdom.  1 Corinthians 6:9 MSG

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In and with Christ, you can overcome the world and all the evil it presents you. Christ in you is greater than the sin fighting against you. I know you can overcome because several others have overcome.
You do not have to stay bound by this sin. It has destroyed lives, marriages and families.
It shall not destroy you in Jesus name. Amen!

What are some other ways you know one can stop masturbation?
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Ugochi Oritsejolomisan is a mentor, encourager and influencer. She writes to inspire you to live a full life. Ugochi lives in Canada with her husband Benson and their children; Joshua, Joseph and Josiah.

  • Iroh Shedrach
    Posted at 06:08h, 10 January

    Thank u ma for this article. Now i know that i can stop this act. No more strrugles. Thank u JESUS. GOD BLESS U MA

  • Pius Ogbugo
    Posted at 21:13h, 24 March

    Please I need help this is what I love doing and I want to stop it now so I need advise. I masturbat.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 20:14h, 31 March

      Read the article bro. The information in it will set you on your way to overcoming it.
      Lean on God daily and depend on Him to help you as you journey on.
      God bless you!

  • Adeola osonuga
    Posted at 15:28h, 16 March

    I have been masturbating since my university days.this happen every night when I sleep .but I was ignorance of it.after university life is worst for me.most times when I am awake I masturbate.I want to overcome it.I do watch porn.when I was young I do engaged in sexual perversion.

  • Richmond
    Posted at 18:54h, 13 March

    Thanks ma I pray that God will give me the strength and knowledge to overcome thanks. God bless you.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 23:30h, 15 March

      Praise God bro! God provides strength to those who ask Him. You just keep your eyes on Him and His word…

  • William
    Posted at 03:56h, 05 February

    I want to stop this act

  • Tony BDG
    Posted at 09:58h, 27 August

    God bless you mama for this wonderful exaltation I try stopping this habbit but couldn’t am sure now where I mistaken. Thank you so much.

  • Mabel
    Posted at 09:52h, 27 August

    Am addicted to this act over years and want to stop but I can’t ….I sometimes ask God to forgive me but i will go back and do the same act….
    Right now I feel I am deceiving myself and God is not going to forgive me
    Please I need help

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 20:42h, 05 September

      Dear Mabel,
      If you can commit to reading the Bible, especially the book of John, even if it is one chapter or even half chapter a day, speaking some of the verses back to yourself, and talking to God every day with an open heart, asking The Holy Spirit for help and meaning it from the depth of your heart, you will begin to see changes in your desires.
      The word of God cleanses our hearts and changes our desires.

  • Amosu
    Posted at 09:27h, 13 August

    God bless u for these article ma, I started masturbating since when I was 14 years old till date, I have tried all possible means to stop it. I have talked to people about it, prayed, even confessed to my parents and girlfriend but still no solution. Now am 29 years I really want to stop it cause it’s really causing me so many problems in life…. I will follow these article up and I believe I will be free in Jesus name

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 12:08h, 19 August

      I believe with you bro. Remember that ALL things are possible to them that believe and you can do all things through Christ that gives you strength.

  • Ifeanyi Dominic
    Posted at 22:34h, 01 July

    Now I’m convinced that even in this state of sexual sin that God is ever ready to receive me back to Himself by connecting me to this powerful article…
    Madam, God will continue to bless and empower you to do more great things for the advancement & growth of the Kingdom. You really blessed my soul with this article. By His Grace, I have stopped masturbation with immediate effect, all thanks to your support.
    May the Lord continue to bless you and empower you to reach out to more of His children who had given up on total/complete salvation from sexual sins…
    You’re a blessing to us all..
    God bless you ma’am.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 17:11h, 15 July

      Praise God for victory! I rejoice with you my brother. Now stand fast in God’s word and prayer and desist from these thoughts, people, places and things that suggest masturbation.
      God bless you!

  • Emmanuel
    Posted at 07:47h, 07 June

    Ma pls pray for me av been trying to stop since but the temptation usually overcome me with what av read I pray I overcome it in Jesus name

  • Stephen
    Posted at 06:24h, 25 May

    God bless you woman of God for years I have been battle with masturbation, I have tried different method in stopping it but no way , I have even watched videos read articles to stop but no way. Not only masturbation but pornography, as I am writing this now I just finish watching porn and masturbate please MA I will do as you have said. And I will do anything humanly possible to stop, then my divine intervention will surely come.
    Thank you MA and God grace continue to be upon us life. AMEN

  • ifeanyi
    Posted at 19:17h, 23 May

    Ma, am really happy for this message I pray that it will go a long way in helping me to overcome this bondage of masturbation for over 7 years.

  • Thompson
    Posted at 01:30h, 01 April

    Thanks a million for that I will keep on practicing it thank you

  • John
    Posted at 04:54h, 28 March

    Just pray for me ma,trying to stop this,I stopped it for sometime a week or five day,but when it comes to my mind again,I cant control it,please pray for me ma.

  • Emmanuell clinton
    Posted at 04:54h, 18 March

    Pls help me’i don’t know how to stop myself from masturbating’sometime I do ask for forgiveness and keep committing the same sin what would I do

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 22:32h, 20 March

      Read this article again carefully, take to heart everything you read, and put them to practice, you will possess your victory.

  • Ojo alexandra oluwatoyi
    Posted at 02:33h, 13 February

    Pls i need your counselling. Bcoz i have tried so many times to stop this sinful but i dont see Victor forthcoming pls help me ma out of this situation

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 16:11h, 16 March

      If you read this article again carefully and take to heart everything you read, and put them to practice, you will possess your victory.

  • Ebenezer
    Posted at 15:08h, 19 January

    Around age 7/8 , I learned to masturbate through my friends, three ofm then , both of them were older . At the onset if this exploit, it was like new scientific discovery to me, that I could have sexual gratification without haven to mate with tuhe opposite sex.
    I feel terribly vexed, since there was nothing I didn’t do, to help myself out of the habit but to no success. And now I feel god is no longer interested in me, he is certainly tired of me ; particularly when I see how far my mates have gone in the lord, and I am still there battling to live an habit, for 11 years .
    Mine case is worse because, I totally turned autosexual.
    I love you Jesus

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 20:05h, 20 January

      He loves you too! No matter how long and hard it has been, you can win if you make up your mind to!

  • Ebuka
    Posted at 06:10h, 18 January

    Thanks for this feedback, hope it will help me.

  • Simon
    Posted at 15:01h, 11 January

    God pls forgive me my sin and remove me from masturbation

  • Ol@tunji
    Posted at 12:38h, 28 December

    Please I need your help, masturbation has been a means of soothing myself and it worries me. Since my senior brother played porn in front of me while I was twelve thirteen, I’ve been battling with masturbation, it has distracted me and I feel it has even brought me down in my life generally. I also have a girlfriend who we fornicate and it makes me even worse. The only thing I enjoy now is the consciousness of the fact that I’m doing the wrong thing. Please I need counselling and someone to help me.

  • Michael
    Posted at 18:24h, 27 November

    Thanks really helped me a lot want to stop masturbation by all means

  • Chisom
    Posted at 06:14h, 20 November

    My sister an highly addicted and i have done all i could but after all, see my self Again close to 3yrs nw pls this my number i need ur help or any counselling at all cost

  • philip
    Posted at 19:07h, 18 November

    May this help Amen

  • Kehinde
    Posted at 00:39h, 02 November

    Woman of God,thanks for your post on how to stop masturbation.Infact,I’ve started masturbating when l was twelve years old and l will be fifty-one year old by January next year to the glory of God.Pls l want to be free completely from this act bcos l’m not satisfying my wife and this is giving me
    an embarrassment anytime l want to have sex with her.Actually with the help of holy spirit l have three children.Pls woman of God,l need ur prayers,messages and posts that can help me to forget this sin.Apparently,
    when l want to have sex with my wife,she always complains that l’m tired,l’m having head ache,my legs are panning me etc.l will just leave her and go to bathroom to masturbate then l sleep off.Now,l’m not interested in the masturbation again but it is difficult for me to quit.I need ur help.Remain blessed ma.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 15:58h, 05 November

      Hello my brother. I am sorry I didn’t respond earlier.
      I have a question for you. How are you doing in prayer and study of the word?

  • victor
    Posted at 21:30h, 28 October

    I don’t know what to do again ,have tried every possible means to stop masturbating but it’s hard I was influenced by my friend ,am 18 years old and I started masturbating at that age (18) this year 2018, am fed up please ma I need your advice urgently because have started to loosing focus in my education,I think That was why I wasn’t admitted in this year ,and I have many exams ahead of me,I really need God’s forgiveness,pllllleeeaaassseeee help me ma am dying…..

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 14:15h, 29 October

      Dear Victor,
      If you commit to the information in the blog post. You will be freed from this sin and addiction. I will keep you in my prayers.

  • Ralph
    Posted at 09:43h, 17 October

    Its jxt nt easy to leave this bad andungodly habits. I have tried different ways, read different post nd even watch different ways to stop this had habit. One thing is after reading or watching those things that will help take away my bad habit it will only work for 2days and after that I go back to sin. I he asked for forgiveness of sin to many times from God, I hope he forgives me. Pls, I need u to remember me in ur prayers. I need divine intervention. I think that’s the only thing that can help.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 20:49h, 21 October

      I pray that The Holy Ghost will intervene in a supernatural manner and help you kill the ungodly desire in you. I pray that you would allow The Holy Ghost to drive you to purity that begins from the heart and affects the mind and the body. In Jesus name I pray, amen!

  • Nuhu Yusuf
    Posted at 13:54h, 05 October

    I really thank God that I found you! I need serous prayer so that I can be free from the sin of masturbation. I tried to stop it but doesn’t work. Please help me with serious prayer.
    This sin of masturbation has seriously ruined and still ruining my life! It has distances me away from God; I no longer feel God’s presence in my life. Before I was enjoying God’s blessings, favor and breakthrough, but things seems not to be working the way they were. Even though, God has not totally abandoned me despite my abundant sin of masturbation. Please help me woman of God.

    Thank you and God bless you.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 22:04h, 07 October

      Hello Bro! I believe if you put into practice all that I have share, you will walk into your victory. God’s grace and Spirit is available to help you. Will keep you in my prayers.

  • Magnus
    Posted at 16:00h, 30 September

    I have recieved Jesus but this keep on disturbing my life I masturbating 3times a day I don’t know what to do I have tried to com out of it but i couldn’t .Oh pls God help me I want to serve u.This has destroyed many things in my life especially my reletionship with God.Am dying JESUS don’t allow me perish.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 14:39h, 01 October

      Amen! You are not helpless bro. Depend on The Holy Spirit and listen as He guides you. Follow the article as well, it will help you.

  • Emmy
    Posted at 01:22h, 30 August

    God bless you, I pray this helps am tired of it

  • Andrew
    Posted at 14:52h, 17 August

    Plz am I have been asking for forgiveness but still repeating will God hear my prayers

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 22:55h, 15 September

      God will always forgive a repentant heart. But it does no good to take His mercy for granted. You can overcome this if you set your spirit and mind to.

  • emmanuel
    Posted at 07:49h, 20 July

    i am a sinful man i masturbate i hav a girl frnd whom i want to marry bt we fornicated i am confess all this bcos i want to b saved i belive i wil stop by HIS grace Lord hav mercy on me 4give me & my fiance

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 12:44h, 27 July

      Amen! God always forgives genuine repentance. Stay in His word and pray always, His grace can hold you up and keep you in His will.

  • Orgunah
    Posted at 14:03h, 13 July

    For sure God detests those who use his holy temples for fornication.

  • Akindele
    Posted at 13:43h, 18 May

    I really appreciate the post of the writer. But truth be told, romans 6 7 8 will really help anyone. 8v1 says no condemnation fro you. Meditate on the chapters even when you fall. Still believe you are free

  • Eliz
    Posted at 11:26h, 10 April

    Wot if u promise 2 stop and u keep asking GOD 4 4givness but still u keep repeating d same sin of pleasure….wunt God b tired of forgivin u?

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 11:34h, 10 April

      God does not get tired of forgiving. He loves you too much for that. But you must make sure your repentance is genuine and you are taking sincere steps to stop the act.

  • Victor
    Posted at 06:15h, 04 April

    Need counseling and mentorship pls. This will really help out a lot. Want to also reach out to people with sumilar challenges. Hop I can get more posts to share or even news letters. Thanks ma’am. Shalom

  • Sina
    Posted at 06:55h, 21 February

    Hi i am seven-teen and i am from Iran
    I am addicted to this about 5 years
    And now want to put it away.
    I put it away some times before but i failed.
    I don’t know what to do!
    I tried many things but it didn’t answer
    Plz help! Thanks

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 15:31h, 22 February

      Dear Sina,
      God’s grace is available to you. If you commit to taking the things you have read in the article to heart, and prayerfully putting them into use, you will be on your way to victory.
      God bless you. Please email me if you want us to talk further in more details.
      Have a super blessed day!

  • Ke
    Posted at 08:31h, 20 February

    I really need help to get rid of this habit

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 15:26h, 22 February

      You do have help Ke. If you commit to taking the steps in the article, you will be victorious.
      Have a super blessed day!

  • george
    Posted at 20:15h, 05 December

    thank you ill put it to work God bless u

  • Diamond believe
    Posted at 14:02h, 04 December

    Thanks to ur first post but it seems very difficult to abstain from this deadly sin. The thought of it alone its very fraustrating. Each time i tried to overcome it i keep hearing this voice within me to do it just once and i’ll change. Please i really need ur help.

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 15:02h, 14 December

      You know one way you can deal with it? Meditate on the scriptures where we are commanded against sexual sins and also keep speaking Philippians 4:13 and Romans 6:14.
      Depend on The Holy Spirit on your inside, He that is in you is greater than the devil who seeks to destroy you.

  • Joy
    Posted at 16:00h, 01 October

    It is not easy. I really want to stop!!! but it seems like a Herculean task.
    I am 32 and I must say for 20years this sin has held me bound. I have tried to stop but I always go back to it. I was touched inappropriately as a kid (5/6years) and battled with sexual thoughts all through school, it graduated to using soft objects, clothes tied up in the shape of the male genitalia,pillows to touch myself pillows then it graduated to porn.

    One day my dad walked in while I was at it ( He was a good christian but he never talked to me about it). It is scary I know that its a big sin, hell is real but I don’t know how to stop?. I told my youth pastor about it and he told me once I got married I would stop It ( I entered into a sexual covenant with God not to masturbate or have premarital sex), I even placed a curse on myself, thinking it will deter me ( I said if I masturbate may God should make me barren) .

    I did not sleep with any man until I got married…..I knew God wanted me pure as a young girl, I didn’t mess around – married a virgin ( that masturbates). Today I am married with 2kids ( God was merciful, he still gave me kids ignoring the curse i placed on myself ) but it’s still there.

    The Fear of hell sometimes stops me. (1cor 6:9 9Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God).
    Its scary to be separated from God for all eternity, I know the consequences are huge. I need help.

    I also don’t reach orgasm with Hubby unless with his assistance I stimulate my vagina ( is this a sin too). If i don’t touch my clitoris while he uses his hands I don’t reach orgasm. If this is sin….were women created not to reach Orgasm while men do? . Will I need to stop this too?

    Sometimes I want to just give up but I am encouraged with this post. I will work on the points you gave, especially meditating on scriptures that talk about overcoming sexual sins. Its well. thank you for this post

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 14:27h, 02 November

      I am delighted that you are encouraged. God bless you!

      • Joshua
        Posted at 19:56h, 24 February

        Please could you give specific scriptures to meditate on to avoid temptations from this sin

        • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
          Posted at 18:18h, 25 February

          Hello Joshua,
          Here are some;
          Do you not know that your body is a temple of the holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19–20

          Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18

          But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Ephesians 5:3

          Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5

          For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honour. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

          These will help, also spend time praying in tongues as you meditate on these scriptures.

          God bless you!

  • Sebastian
    Posted at 19:48h, 26 September

    Its hard battling with the other world (immorality). Sometimes it feels like a long web of trouble to trouble. I don’t understand myself sometimes, and i have many to say but God got us…….

  • Christian
    Posted at 07:11h, 16 September

    Your Comment here…thk

  • Christian
    Posted at 07:11h, 16 September

    thank you very much woman of God, it helped me a lot..more grace

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    […] countless mails on people wanting to stop fornication and other sexual sins. The one I wrote on Masturbation hasn’t gotten quite that much response but I have received mails from some of my readers who […]

  • Samuel
    Posted at 12:35h, 16 May

    I am a victim. And i know it a sin for long, i have tried almost all what you said yes they work but i am easily distrated and i will go back againt but one thin i’v not tried is geting a counselor i know counseling will not help because it might be a one day or two week stuff. I know what i realy need is a mentor and no one is ready to asist me which i acknowledge long ago that i needed one. someone that can realy be close and help me to get this thin of my head completly. Though am still searching

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 17:14h, 16 May

      Hi Samuel,
      It is a very good thing that you want to stop, it shows you are still sensitive to The Holy Spirit. Have you tried talking with your Pastor about it?

      • Samuel
        Posted at 10:42h, 17 May

        No. But i actually have reason for that

    • George
      Posted at 09:50h, 09 July

      Have you quit?

  • godwill
    Posted at 21:57h, 02 May

    I am a victim

    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 13:43h, 06 May

      If you stick with the recommendations of this post, you will be on your way to overcoming this habit.
      God’s grace!

  • David Better
    Posted at 12:01h, 01 March

    Thanks to your previous post, I now agree that it is sin (#1) and I want to stop it (#4). I like your suggestions. I must have faith that I can stop and that I can be forgiven. One problem is that, like with using pornography, it is so yucky and shameful that it is difficult to bring it up in prayer.

    You ask: “What are some other ways you know one can stop masturbation?”

    Two things I’ve been doing to keep me away from porn:

    I used to tell myself that I didn’t deserve nice things (I don’t work hard enough, I don’t care enough for my family; etc.). So when I really needed something “nice” it would be the forlorn comforts of pornography and masturbation or other bad habits. Now I say I *do* deserve nice things and I find more wholesome things to do that I like more.

    I am also spending more time in online Christian spaces (instead of online porn spaces). Often not for guidance or admonition, but for cheering and uplifting messages. This gives me a quick boost.

    Sorry for two such long comments! I hope they might be useful.


    • Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
      Posted at 22:12h, 01 March

      I am excited David! No need to apologize, I am happy to know that this is helping someone. And your comment here is a blessing to many who will read and see that they deserve the best and do not need to indulge in any self destructing act for gratification.
      I cannot wait to hear your full testimony!
      Please stay in touch.
      Have a super blessed day!

  • Jeffrey
    Posted at 14:36h, 13 February

    I am a victim .