What Happens When Couples Are Resolute. - Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
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What Happens When Couples Are Resolute.

What Happens When Couples Are Resolute.

When Couples Are ResoluteI have discovered that times when I make up my mind that something must be done; somehow, I find a way to get it done no matter how difficult or impossible it appeared.
It does seem to me that whenever I tell myself that I do not have any other choice but to get something done, my heart and eyes open to the how, where and when, to the answer, to solution I need.

On the contrary, whenever I do not task myself and the ability of God in me, whenever I lack the will to try or keep looking for answers, I will not get to the solution or the how to handle a matter or fix a thing.
I have come to understand and believe the common saying that “Where there is a will there is a way.”

The Power Of Belief.
You will always attract what your heart and mind strongly desire; it will always be unto us according to our faith. When we put our faith into action, tell ourselves that with God there is always a way no matter how dry the wilderness or how high the mountain, we will stop at nothing to make sure we find a way out that situation and ensure that the peace and joy of The Lord is restored to our homes.

Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:19 AMP

Belief Opens Doors.
When couples believe that a particular situation is irresolvable, their hearts and eyes will be closed to the solution, the true solution, even if it is starring them in their faces.
But a couple that is resolved to deal with it and put it out of their home will find a way, or ways to handle that same situation. I believe that because they have told themselves that they have no other option but to remove that obstacle to their joy in marriage, because they are solution minded, they naturally attract solutions.

Positive thoughts will attract positive actions.

Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Romans 12:12 (MSG)

No Alternatives.
A couple resolute about making their marriage work, without considering separation, divorce or even just living together as other options will find that as they stick with God and rely on His word, the trial they face and overcome will make their marriage even better than it was in the beginning.

For nothing will be impossible with God. Luke 1:37 (ESV)

Are you facing a challenge in your marriage?

Do you believe you can overcome it with God?

Are you resolute about it?

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Ugochi Oritsejolomisan

Ugochi Oritsejolomisan is a mentor, encourager and influencer. She writes to inspire you to live a full life. Ugochi lives in Canada with her husband Benson and their children; Joshua, Joseph and Josiah.

  • Henry
    Posted at 07:03h, 07 November

    Thanks so much Ugochi. Honestly, am not married yet but your message.. It’s really building me up for the challenges ahead.

    • Ugochi Jolomi
      Posted at 10:52h, 07 November

      I am glad to hear this. I trust you will have a blissful marriage!

  • Deborah Okeke
    Posted at 17:36h, 29 October

    hello pst,
    thanks for this wonderfull article.it makes me learn alot.whenwe are determine to make our marriag work,it works out for our best . that’s true. 🙂 🙂 remain bless pst

  • Beth
    Posted at 19:57h, 22 October

    This is so true, Ugochi. And I’m so glad you brought this up in the context of a couple who are having a hard time. If they put their hope in the wrong things like an escape from their marriage or an attractive coworker who treats them special, they will lose hope and focus on the sacredness and joy of their marriage. When we are resolute about protecting our marriage and pouring into it, God brings growth, healing and improvement. Thanks for the challenge, my friend! It’s always a pleasure to visit and sit at your feet! 🙂

    • Ugochi Jolomi
      Posted at 10:19h, 27 October

      Thanks Beth for your valuable inputs here. I really do appreciate them. Have a super blessed week!

  • Rosey
    Posted at 15:03h, 22 October

    The benefits of a long-lasting marriage, where both partners have worked to make it good, are exponential…and they pass from generation to generation!! A good marriage, is good for our kids! 🙂

    • Ugochi Jolomi
      Posted at 15:07h, 22 October

      You couldn’t have said it any better Rosey! Our marriages do affect our generations. That means we all have to do Al it takes to make it work.
      Thanks for sharing these wise words, have a super blessed day!