15 REASONS SHE WON'T MARRY YOU

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15 REASONS SHE WON’T MARRY YOU

01 Mar 15 REASONS SHE WON’T MARRY YOU

Posted at 13:25h in Relationships, Singles' Tidbits by Ugochi Oritsejolomisan 24 Comments

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This is for all single brothers who are “seeing” a girl with the intention of marrying her, whether or not you have made your intention known, I thought to help you know one or more reasons why she may not pull through in a decision to marry you.
The reason I share this is to help all single brothers buckle up and “be” a husband before they actually become one. There are so many qualities or godly traits that single sisters would love to find in the man that they would yield themselves to.

Below are some reasons I gleaned from personal experience and encounters with some single acquaintances and friends.

1. You do not seem to know your purpose; you lack direction.|
2. You act like a certified satisfied mediocre.
3. You behave irresponsibly.
4. You do not take her seriously.
5. You always avoid discussing both of you together or any other issues that bother on commitment.
6. You do not pride in her, hardly want to introduce her to the people in your life .
7. You do not treat her any different than the other ladies.
8. You treat her in disrespect and disregard.
9. You ignore her corrections.
10. You won’t ask her opinion; you want to make every decision for her.
11. You show little or no concerns for the things that concern her.
12. You make her buy into your dreams and visions but will not give hers a thought.
13. You have not given her reason to feel secure in your love.
14. You are more interested in “having” her than loving and marrying her.
15. You are not just the one for her, or she is not seeing from God’s perspective!

Do not despair brother if you find yourself struggling with one or more of the above, if you would connect with God and get rooted in Him and His word and His Spirit, you will begin to exhibit the fruits of the Holy Spirit and you will find yourself being and becoming a husband and when that happens, the “sister” will get attracted to you and not hesitate.

Galatians 5:22-23
22 But the fruit of the [Holy] Spirit [the work which His presence within accomplishes] is love, joy (gladness), peace, patience (an even temper, forbearance), kindness, goodness (benevolence), faithfulness,
23 Gentleness (meekness, humility), self-control (self-restraint, continence)…
Okay now, is there something else you might want to add to the list? All sisters and brothers speak up please!

Ugochi Oritsejolomisan

teshuva7@gmail.com

Ugochi Oritsejolomisan is a mentor, encourager and influencer. She writes to inspire you to live a full life. Ugochi lives in Canada with her husband Benson and their children; Joshua, Joseph and Josiah.

24 Comments

Dynamix-kallon
Posted at 02:01h, 09 July

honestly, mama J, i just saw this post…………….. it is hard to say but it is true cos this post of your really hit me hard cos i find myself in that group. Jezzz………………have mercy on me
- Ugochi Oritsejolomisan
  Posted at 13:20h, 09 July
  
  Lol! Then do something about it Bro.
  Have a super blessed day!
Justin M. Davito
Posted at 00:21h, 02 May

Good posts for the single guy!
- Ugochi Jolomi
  Posted at 12:31h, 05 May
  
  Thanks Justin. Praise God!
Unyime-Ivy King
Posted at 23:56h, 04 March

This is a highly enlightening post, Ugo. Loved it. Good learning points there as well.
- Ugochi
  Posted at 11:22h, 05 March
  
  Amen! Thanks a lot sis!
  Have a super blessed day!
  Love
Michell Pulliam
Posted at 16:13h, 04 March

Hi Ugochi…wonderful list! Many relationships would survive and thrive if both parties were self”LESS” when it came to the other. Thanks for sharing…have a blessed week my friend!
- Ugochi
  Posted at 11:21h, 05 March
  
  Very true Michell. Thanks for coming by and have a super blessed day!
  Love
Cindy Saul
Posted at 12:31h, 04 March

LOL!!! I agree with all!
- Ugochi
  Posted at 14:30h, 04 March
  
  Lolol!!!
  Thanks for coming by Cindy!
  Have a super blessed day!
  Love
Khloé Belle Gadson
Posted at 16:37h, 03 March

Makes sense. Good post and reasons.

Happy Sharefest!
xoxo,
Khloe
http://www.kgstyleblogs.com
- Ugochi
  Posted at 14:29h, 04 March
  
  Thanks Khloe! Have a super blessed day!
  Love
xtraleo
Posted at 15:46h, 02 March

I’m all over #1!!! That is a serious deal breaker. Not only will she not marry you, she won’t seriously date you either. Maybe dinner and friendly conversation…the end. #sitssharefest
- Ugochi
  Posted at 14:29h, 04 March
  
  Ha ha! Lol! So true for wise sisters!
  Thanks for coming by, I appreciate you!
  Love
OneMommy
Posted at 15:14h, 02 March

A woman definitely deserves respect, someone who will take her seriously, and is proud of being with her.

Stopping in from SITS!
- Ugochi
  Posted at 15:46h, 02 March
  
  Definitely!
  Thanks for stopping by OneMommy, do have a super blessed day!
  Love
Mothering From Scratch
Posted at 14:58h, 02 March

{Melinda} It makes me sad that many women settle and marry men who do one or more of the above. Certainly, we can’t expect perfection, but a commitment to her (shown through respect, love and honor) and to God are non-negotiables. I’ve been trying to get this message through to my teenage daughter. She gets so frustrated by how many of her friends sacrifice their self-image and dignity for a guy who doesn’t treat them well.

An awesome post, as always! Happy Sharefest!
- Ugochi
  Posted at 15:45h, 02 March
  
  It is very sad what many women have become, thank God for your daughter, I am glad she knows something is wrong with her friends’ attitude. Tells me she is different.
  Thanks for coming by Melinda, do have a super blessed weekend!
  Love
LuAnn Braley
Posted at 01:03h, 02 March

Valuable information for men who want to get married!
- Ugochi
  Posted at 09:39h, 02 March
  
  Amen Lu!
  Thanks for coming by, do have a super blessed weekend!
  Love
Myne Whitman
Posted at 16:57h, 01 March

Agree with all the reasons, and they cover most of it.
- Ugochi
  Posted at 09:22h, 02 March
  
  Amen Myne, thanks for coming by and do have a super blessed weekend!
  Love
mary_smith
Posted at 14:42h, 01 March

All great reasons!!!
I’m stopping by from Our Everyday Harvest!

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- Ugochi
  Posted at 09:21h, 02 March
  
  Thanks for coming by Mary. Do have a super blessed weekend!
  Love