10 Dec HUSBANDS, SAVE YOUR WIVES!
And men, please if you believed so much that the lady you married was the one for you, so much so that you withstood all the pressure from your family and married her, it becomes your duty to shield her from them knowing that they had qualms about her being your wife from time. You cannot bring a woman into your home and subject her to insults and mistreatments from your parents and/or sibling.
All wives and mothers, fathers and brothers, please let us allow our sons to enjoy their homes, let us be wise and allow peace in their homes instead of being the cause of trouble. The same thing for all sisters and brothers, it breaks my heart to see the misery and pain parents and siblings cause their son/brother’s wives all because they think he should give them the same attention, time and financial support he used to before he got married. Remember he is raising his family with so many bills to pay, if you really loved him you would give him the time and space he requires to focus on his family while you go about your own life too. When you trouble his wife you trouble his home and him too, he cannot be at peace when there is no peace in his home, that is not a show of love, love will not do that.
I have three boys and I always pray that I will be the best Mother-in-law I can ever be, I have always desired to love and accept my daughters-in-law no matter what, without expecting perfection from them since I am not perfect either. I do not want to cause any lady misery in my sons’ home; I would rather that she would find me a model of a godly woman and someone she can look up to.