19 Nov CONCERNED VOICES
As I waited to get an inspiration for today’s post, I was reminded of something a friend told me a couple of years ago. She told me how her friend told her she was not being wise by disclosing all that she had to her husband. She told her of how she had a secret account with some millions in it from where she was able to carry out some projects which her husband was not aware of. She said if she didn’t do that there was no way she would have accomplished all that she had. She advised my friend to begin putting some money aside, secretly, so that she could have some money to call her own and spend whichever way she wants, whenever she wants and however she wants.
A man once told of how his friends told him he was spoiling his wife because he was loving her “too much” and she would soon lose respect for him. They told him he needed to toughen up a bit, and treat her a bit harshly, show her he was “the man” so that she would revere him. They told him that women always respect men who do not go soft on them and that they were all personal witnesses to this fact.