10 Sep MY GIFT OF TALKABILITY
And who best to “enjoy” my talkability but my dear husband? If this was always in the positive sense of it, it would have been very great because my husband likes to talk; in fact he lives on talking, lol! My husband wants me to talk with him every time, but I am usually overly too serious minded for that, too busy with other wifely and mommy duties.
I thought I could talk but when I met my husband I realized that I am just an amateur at talking. But like I said earlier, my husband would have really loved it if I talked with him all the time, unfortunately, my talkability comes to play mostly in the negative sense, when I am upset about something, usually something he did or didn’t do. That is not nice is it? I don’t think so too. But in my own defense, I am working seriously on it, trying to use my talkability in the positive sense instead of the negative, trying to make sure I talk him happy. I am not “there” yet, but it is not as bad as it was in the beginning of our marriage, I hope believe he can attest to this.
If you are a woman reading this you will agree with me that we are so gifted by God in this area of talking. God has blessed us with talkability and He always has a purpose for every gift He gives, and this gift of talkability He has given us He intends us to use to His glory, He intends us to use it to help our husbands, encourage, uplift, applaud, and honour them. But like we all know satan always wants to corrupt everything God created. He always wants the woman to nag and rant and talk until the husband gets upset and maybe talks back, walks out, goes away, shuts down, or in some cases of extreme anger hits the wife (I don’t support any of these actions and most of all the last one). Even when our husbands say some really annoying things, instead of responding immediately and speaking unwisely, it would pay better to bite your tongue and wait for a better time to talk so we can talk as the wise women God has created us.
No man likes a nagging woman, it can destroy a marriage, in fact I know about one that happened very recently. Isn’t that what the devil wants, break down in marriages?!
Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there anything too hard for me? Jeremiah 32:27
Now some of you husbands are not innocent of this, I have seen some men who have out nagged their wives; you too should do something about it!I am working on this area of my life, I want to honour God and my husband with my tongue, how about you, what say you?!
Everything you say should be kind and well thought out so that you know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6 (GW)
Nicholl VincentPosted at 03:24h, 14 September
amazing post! really great!
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UgochiPosted at 13:35h, 14 September
Have a super blessed day!
BTW-I follow you
vivienePosted at 23:24h, 11 September
Thanks for the reminder! No man would like a nagging wife.. =)
UgochiPosted at 13:33h, 14 September
They will not Viviene.
Thanks for coming by and leaving a note, have a super blessed day!
AnonymousPosted at 04:43h, 11 September
Am so in love wt dis post..thanx ma
UgochiPosted at 13:29h, 14 September
Amen! Thanks for coming by and leaving a note. Have a super blessed day!
Terence donnellyPosted at 20:40h, 10 September
Proverbs 21.9 9 (CEV)and 25.24 (ESV) these bring a smile to my face? not in a bad way, this post is so true, be well: agman
UgochiPosted at 13:26h, 14 September
Thank you my friend,
I appreciate your comments. Have a super blessed day!
Elizabeth SpencePosted at 20:33h, 10 September
Thanks for this reminder to be wise and discerning with our words. I know I need to be much more careful sometimes.
Thanks for linking up!
UgochiPosted at 13:25h, 14 September
I appreciate your coming by and leaving a note.
Have a super blessed day!
A Proverbs 31 WifePosted at 17:53h, 10 September
Hey dear, I would love it if you were to share this with us at Matrimonial Monday!
UgochiPosted at 13:23h, 14 September
Thanks for the invite k, have a super blessed day!