When I asked what she meant by not taking any chance she said she will make sure she finds out before she goes ahead with the marriage. And she reasoned that since a direct approach might offend him she plans to find out indirectly, she was going to rob his back while standing behind him and look down at “him” to know that “he” is alive. Of course I disapproved; it would be like leading cattle to a lake and asking them not to drink. Besides it might still be offensive to him if he knew the motive behind what she was doing.
Share your thoughts; if you are/were single, what would you do to make sure you do not get deceived in this manner?