I am really growing, I don’t mean in age alone, but in maturity, lol! And I don’t mean to commend myself but I am happy that I can look back and say that I have left where I used to be, especially in my relationship with my husband. Little things that I used to allow fester and grow into a huge fight I now disregard and move on with love in my heart. Peace is far better than war!
I totally appreciate those words now. I used to always want to prove myself right while looking from my own perspective only and my husband would want me to see from his point of view but this always most times leads to fights over very trivial things. But now
all most of the time it is different.
Can we avoid misunderstandings in marriage? No! Can we avoid fights? Yes! We will not always understand each other, but we can decide to put our misunderstandings aside and work as one to maintain peace in our homes.