No, I am not beating up myself, I have not been a terrible wife but I know if put side by my side the vows I made to my husband, I wouldn’t be able to say, I have kept them in earnest.
I know it is so for most of us married people, we get so excited on our wedding days and make all these fantastic vows, promises and then, maybe just at the honey moon; we tear our very words apart. Some of us take time to write our own vows, our heart, what we desire to be to our husbands or wives yet, when the opportunity to be or do those things presents itself we fail.
Let me share an excerpt from a song I love so much by Bebe and Cece Winans- These What Abouts
…Cause what about the plans we made
What about the vows we pledged
Are they still alive or dead
And what about the promise to stay
Can I still believe it’s ok
Can we somehow talk about these what abouts…
God will hold us accountable for the vows we made, after all, we made it before Him. It would indeed truly make a huge difference if we remember our wedding vows and determine to keep them, or don’t you think?